|Author Victoria Moran. Isn’t she simply radiant?|
Today we talk with one of the loveliest women to walk the planet, Victoria Moran. She’s the author of many books, including Fat, Broke and Lonely No More; Fit From Within; The Love-Powered Diet; and Creating a Charmed Life: Sensible, Spiritual Secrets Every Busy Woman Should Know When I was watching a video of her, I had the distinct feeling of wanting to be as lovely as she is. She’s the kind of woman you’d trust with your pets, kids, or secrets; who has a solution to any issue large or small; and who knows her own self so fully and authentically that I wanted some of that grace to rub off on me. Here’s her advice for 40licious:
1. It’s not always easy for 40licious women to balance career, kids, relationships and aging parents — and still have time for themselves. How does one do all this with grace?
You have to get a clear concept of the 24-hour day. It’s all we’ve ever had and all we will ever have. We’ve been told for decades that we can “do it all,” but we can’t, at least not all at once. It’s a matter of prioritizing, and a great rule of thumb is “things with feelings first.” In other words, yourself and your family first, and everything else lines up after that.
2.What are some steps women can take to get in touch with their spirituality?
Quiet time is most important. Take yoga, learn to meditate, or go to a convent and get yourself a spiritual director if that’s more your style. The point is, your spiritual self is with you all the time; you just have to quiet down enough to get in touch with it. You also have give spirituality a value in your life. A lot of people look at is a something extra, nice maybe but not really important like watching Dr. Oz or getting an oil change. It is, however, of primary importance, because if your life is directed from your spiritual core, things will work immensely better than if your ego is running things and taking potluck.
3. What is one thing we should do every day?
“ME in the morning”: meditation (see above) and exercise. If you get those in, the rest will take care of itself.
4. Any other advice for women in their 40s to live a charmed life?
The 40s are supposed to be life’s very best decade: you’ve matured out of the flightiness and selfishness of the 20s and 30s, and you’re still at a high level of physical vitality. Ways to be sure that you’re having the time of your life right now are:
- Stay healthy and radiant. Make fresh juice with greens in it. Eat lots of salads and other fresh, colorful plant foods.
- Sleep enough: you don’t have stay up half the night to keep all your ducks in a row.
- Lighten up: you’re smack in the middle of your glorious life. Enjoy it.
- Do it your way, like Frank Sinatra sang about. When something resonates with you, it’s yours. If it doesn’t, really ask yourself if this has to be in your life.
- Trust yourself and your intuition. You more than you think you do.
- Live in the moment. These really are the good old days.