Hey! Democrats! Over here!

This morning on NPR, wonky types lamented the fact that their most elusive target voting group, single women, were not coming out for local elections. We ladies are┬ánot joiners, they said. We’re supportive to the Democratic party, but not getting out to vote. It’s really quite simple math. I have a full-time job and primary custody of my nearly 3-year-old. …

Vanessa McGradyHey! Democrats! Over here!

The 40licious Bride: Aftermath

It’s hard to be whatever you’d call the modern equivalent of a fairy princess for six months — building to the apex of fabulousness in which you wear the BEST DRESS you’ve ever had, partied with the BEST PEOPLE you know, and then linked up for life with the BEST LOVER you will ever meet — and then plunk down …

Vanessa McGradyThe 40licious Bride: Aftermath

I’ve never heard it said better

I am often guilty of being jaded, of thinking patriotism an overrated virtue, of empty threats to move to Paris or Canada if such-and-such happens. But then I see this man, and I love him immediately, and I remember why we are all on this patch of dirt between the Atlantic and the Pacific, and why everyone else wants to …

Vanessa McGradyI’ve never heard it said better

40licious Hall o’ Fame: Michelle Obama

Not only does she get to regularly bed down nightly with the world’s collective crush.Not only does she teach her kids about locally grown food.Not only does she rock whatever she wears, even if it’s a big stupid plastic belt.Not only did she leave corporate America to become a community organizer. She also told Oprah this:“I think in my 40s, …

Vanessa McGrady40licious Hall o’ Fame: Michelle Obama

Yes We Did

One who breaks an unjust law that conscience tells him is unjust, and who willingly accepts the penalty of imprisonment in order to arouse the conscience of the community over its injustice, is in reality expressing the highest respect for law.— Martin Luther King, Jr. My friend recently asked me if I was proud to be an American. “I don’t …

Vanessa McGradyYes We Did

What are we?

When you’re 40licious, it’s likely that you have been many places. I’m lucky to have a list of countries I’ve visited on at least two hands, maybe three or even four if I remember hard enough. I didn’t have a corporate job for most of my life so that I could travel where and when I wanted. Now, it feels …

Vanessa McGradyWhat are we?

Predictions for 2009

Everyone is all about cheap chic, even those of us rare few who still go to an office 50 hours a week. We are becoming more conscious as a society about our consumption. We’re trying to get by on less, we are trying to make simple lives, we are trying to retreat from the shrine of shopping malls. With this …

Vanessa McGradyPredictions for 2009